I love to travel. The need for it just gets into me and it's not something that I will never get over. I simply have to travel whether alone, with strangers, with friends, with family. Travel is a part of who I am. My biggest travel regrets, however, are how long it takes me to return to some of my favorite places with family and friends. Somehow my business dreams will connect to travel and writing.
Whenever I get to where I am going, and while on my way, but especially once I return; I write. It is an automatic relationship that my heart has with the pen. I have to write. These are just the most common and basic parts of me.
I am compelled to 'launch out into the deep' with a plan, a new idea and a team. New things excite me like dancing steps that I have never tried before to tight beats and melodies; horseback riding; driving in a car that knows just what to do with winding, back roads; capturing moments with my camera; being apart of someone else's success; freedom experienced in new ways; God & love expressed through the simple things that we do for one another.
Extreme Home Makeover makes me cry. Madea makes me laugh. God makes me free. My family makes me proud. My community inspires my commitment and my best. My mother shapes dreamers. My father creates leaders. And I dance and laugh and cry and live out loud and free. That's me.
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Part 5c: More For Your Wallet
Well, I received a few requests for some scripture suggestions that are perfect for the pocket. Honestly it just depends on what you are dealing with at the time. My favorite spot to hunt down life changing scriptures for my wallet/purse/back pocket is Proverbs. I just believe that the Proverbs can turn you into a PRO. Just by applying what you learn in that one book you could become a PRO at relationships, business, money as well as developing the kind of character that will walk you into the life that you've dreamed of. But don't take my word for it, check it out. Try this:
(1) Read one chapter a day for the next 6 months. When the time has passed you will have read each chapter 6 times a piece. It's a painless way to keep hearing and hearing until you retain the heart of Proverbs.
(2) As you read write down your favorite scriptures and feel free to post these new favorites or life changing scriptures here for someone else to put in their pocket. This way we can help each other out. (And I know that some of you hate to post, so just shoot me an email, I will post it for you (anonymously, if you want to remain anonymous)
(3) In case you where wondering where to start, use the date. Today is the 11th so start reading PRO 11. Tomorrow will be the 12th so read PRO 12 tomorrow. If you miss a day just get back on the wagon and start with that day. For those months that are short a day or two just read all the remaining chapters on the last day of the month (it will never be more than 3 chapters on that day).
Here is one that I like, PRO 23:33 AMP
"[Under the influence of wine] your eyes will behold strange things [and loose women] and your mind will utter things turned the wrong way [untrue, incorrect, and petulant]." Alcohol and violence ended my marriage. A man (or woman) choosing to live by this could save their relationship.
Here's another, PRO 24:3-4 AMP
"Through skillful and godly Wisdom is a house (a life, a home, a family) built, and by understanding it is established [on a sound and good foundation], And by knowledge shall its chambers [of every area] be filled with all precious and pleasant riches." I want a certain kind of life. I want my family to flow. I want my home just so. This scripture lets me know that it's not just going to fall from the sky. I'll need to do something, get more Wisdom, develop more skill, build the kind of character that will give me the life I want and help me to keep it tight and right.
Anyway, it's your turn, you add some (pocket scriptures) . . .
Part 5b: What's in Your Wallet?
I have noticed that a lot people use the word faith loosely. Some throw it around like a toy and regard it only as a last resort, "Well this didn't work, so I think I'll try faith."
That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about taking the effort to ensure that faith is central in your life. Taking the steps to be focused on it without being spooky. Taking the time to Internalize your F-A-I-T-H.
The I in F-A-I-T-H is INTERNALIZE. Last post the tools came up. Let's start back with Tool #1: Pocket Scriptures.
By now you have been Finding & Studying Scriptures as well as Asking & Confessing. A pocket scripture is simply taking the scripture that truly speaks to you and putting it on a notecard and placing that notecard in your wallet, back pocket, on the visor in your car, the mirror in your back room or whatever works for you. This is not magic, this is simply you keeping the word on who you say you are in your face, so that you remember to act like who you say you are. I started doing this when I was college.
I always wore blue jeans, never carried a purse, so everything that I needed was in my jean pockets. My back pockets however, where always empty, because I think it's too easy for people to pick your back pocket (nobodies watching it). Anyway, I did alot of walking then, 15 minutes to this class, 15 minutes to that class, waiting in line to buy lunch, waiting in line to buy school books, you get the picture. I could leave my dorm room happy and sure of myself. But by the time I arrive at class I could be nervous, frustrated and afraid to speak. I had some hard nosed professors and a lot of small classes where I could not hide. I didn't want to anyway, but I don't want to make a fool of myself either and I didn't want to be afraid to speak up. So I started keeping my favorite scripture in my back pocket (I would switch out once I knew it by heart). And when the fear would grip me I would grab that pocket scripture and do battle in my mind. You see, I want to enjoy my life and fear and foolishness are not a part of my pleasure. Feeling good in my own skin and having the guts to go for the dream is. So I ask you, what's in your back pocket, wallet, purse, whatever? You know what I mean.
A scripture to start with,
"God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power, and of love and of a sound mind (2Tim 1:7)." Are you acting crazy? because you don't have to . . .
-MizJAI-
Part 5a: Having Fun and Continuing to Build Faith
I missed you guys last week. I am trying a new work out routine and it has me a little out of sorts in the morning. But I am excited about it.
In the meantime, I have been thinking about this F-A-I-T-H thing. Consequently the T and the H have changed. You can review the changes here.
As for today, have you ever found your mind overrun with ideas and dreams of things that you would like to have? And you think and think and think and pray (a little:-)) and dream and think some more about it until your mind or your heart explodes. Then you calm down, but it remains in the back of your head as something that you will get yourself as soon as you get a chance. The desire never goes away, you just store it away.
Our dreams, our righteous dreams, are so much more than the "things" that we desire and they should be honored with our full attention. At this point you have been FINDING & studying the promise as well as ASKING and confessing the promise. Those steps help you to identify the dreams that God will honor. And once you know that God is on your side, what is holding you back?
Now it's time to do things to truly INTERNALIZE who you say you want to be, what you say you want to do. There are two tools that I use all the time to anchor my dreams inside my heart because I don't want them to be passing fantasies, I want them to be real.
Tool #1: Pocket Scriptures
Tool #2: Focus Boards
Listen my alarm is ringing. It's time to go work out, so I'll finish this on the next post.
In the meantime, I hope you guys have some vacations planned. I know I need that time to regroup and reset my personal compass. I use it to rest and reevaluate my life, and to determine whether or not I am taking the baby steps and grown up strides to get me to the places that I want to be in this lifetime.
"See" you next week.
MizJAI
Part 4b: The Single Most Dynamic Action in My Prayer Life
I had that desperate look in my eye. We needed help back then (we still do but it was more painful--to me--back then). I often felt that without somebody's intervention the doors could close any day now. I mean I was doing everything that I knew how to do, working 20 hour days, covering as many positions in our young company as I could, praying, working out as my single outlet, and falling apart on the inside. The non-profit program that my family built (are building) had such massive need and yet the response to support seemed minimal to me . . . I was caught up in these thoughts until she interrupted me. She was the newest member to our advisory board. She pulled me aside for little more than seconds, and said more to me with her eyes than anything else, but her spoken message was this, "It will be OK. Don't look like that, it will be OK." Then she squeezed my arm and walked away. She was a successful entrepreneur in my town and had taken a moment to notice and respond to something in me. For years I pounder the words she said and the words that she didn't say. I considered the challenges she must have faced building, maintaining and growing her business locally and nationally. I studied the concern in her eyes and I learned something. There are those who respond to need, but overwhelmingly people respond to success. They (we) want to be a part of something that works and works well.
And when I learned that I changed my focus to the fact that we are successful at raising children and in turn I changed my look and my conversation to focus on "whatsoever things are good." My conversation about New Hope also changed, I told the stories of our success. I quit allowing my face to tell the story of my personal struggle, it tells the story of impending success. And you know what happens now? People ask me, "How can we help?"
But wait a minute! I don't want to gloss over this truth right here! I changed the way that I pray. The Bible says that I can "come boldly come before the throne." I learned that a portion of that boldness comes from confessing the words that I know God will respond to. I discovered that "God has an expected end for me (Jer 29:11), and that good success is an option for me (Joshua 1:8), and that men would give into me pressed down shaken together and running over (Luke 6:38), that greater is He that is in me than He that is in the world (1 John 4:4), that God is giving us a new thing and that now it shall spring forth (Isaiah 43:19), and that in unity we cannot be stopped (Genesis 11:6), and that I can do all things through the power of the Word that strengthens me (Philippians 4:13), and the list goes on and on. These are the thoughts that I chose to flood my mind with. I set a few moments aside a day to study the Words that encourage and build me up, and I take the time to restate them in MizJAI speak so that they stick to my soul and come out of me like flowing waters when I need them.
Said plain, after I ask God for something in my life, I now spend the rest of my time finding more examples of the promise that I need and want in my life and I make my confessions my conversations. This makes me bold and causes me to fear less and less and to stand harder and stronger and with more grace and expectation!
But that's not all. The third part of the process is easy and fun, but crucial to long term success of any kind, I'll see you guys next week.
MizJAI
PART 4a: 2 Conversations That You Need to Have with God
He knew what she wanted, but he was waiting for her. She smiled at him and looked down. She laughed at his jokes and danced around the real issue. This is how she was. Certain and exact about what she wanted from people. Slow and unclear about asking. People usually just covered her. They often read her mind and gave her what she wanted. After all, she was pretty and nice enough and this just seemed to work for her.
Of course they weren't reading her mind for real, they were reading her body language. And whether Miran realized it or not, she had become used to this, never-really-speaking-up, things-just-kind-of-happening-for-her type of existence. It made her a little prideful. But it was subtle to her, she couldn't feel it happening. She simply became use to getting what she wanted regardless of what she did. But Les was different.
Les Morrison was the kind of man who enjoyed the company of beauty. The thing is nobody could tell it by the company he kept, because what he found beautiful in people was often a little hidden to the naked eye. Besides, he didn't need visual stimulation. He could barely see as it is, couldn't drive and declared legally blind. The clincher, he was 'gorgeous'. In crown 'gorgeous'. Can't look at him too long or I'll go blind 'gorgeous', and it was all lost on him which made him even more 'gorgeous'.
He found his pleasure in the voices and the texture of the words. He could hear the weight of convictions when people spoke and because of that he often knew when they where being real. And Miran was holding something back and he knew what it was and he could help her, but he would not if she did not ask. "I hope she asks," he thought to himself, never wanting to keep a good thing from anybody.
Are you like that with God, you never take the time to speak up and ask Him for what you really want. So you kick at the rocks and hold your hopes and heartaches to yourself. When they simply need to be spoken to the One in your life who knows just what to do with you.
"Father don't let me be a fool."
"Help me to make my business work. Teach me new things."
"Show me how to use this 'power to get wealth.'"
"I keep choosing the wrong men, show me how to love, show me how to live. Don't let me get me jacked up."
God made you, surely He is strong enough to deal with you, the real you. Oftentimes we pray these big grandiose prayers, when all we need to do in order to be heard by God is speak to Him honestly, listen for the answers consistently and our lives will change dynamically. He is not like everyone else that you have been dealing with--you must ask for "it". If you ask for any promise that he has already spoken to you through the Word, then you can trust that you will receive it.
Try it and see what happens . . . and in the next post we'll uncover the second even more life changing part of this prayer thing. It's the kind of information that can make or break your faith. And when your faith falls apart, so does all your dreams.
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