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  • Judy

    00:01 EDT, 05.Jun.08
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!!!!  Hope it was LOADS of fun!!!! Sorry I won't be ablet os see you in your new role at the Opera.  I know you'll be AWESOME!



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  • No Frog Prince

    Right away the kids hit on familiar themes: fights, robberies, drug deals, sex, and AIDS. Okay, sure, that's all important to talk about - but the puppet masters seemed to have a hard time disassociating the characters from themselves.

    "Uh, uh, I didn't do that," one would protest when a peer suggested a bit of action.

    "The character is not you," I kept interjecting, in vain.

    Thinking it might be a little easier to get some distance if we treated less immediate topics, I tried to inject a bit of fantasy.

    "What if, when these two guys fight, instead of just shooting at each other, something magical happens? What if the bullets turn into butterflies or one of the guys suddenly flies away?"

    Maybe not the best idea, but I was trying to get them to come up with something fantastic.

    One young man started to talk about some of the characters in his neighborhood.

    "There's this crackhead named Frog who hangs out behind Miss Betty's store," he said, eliciting cries of recognition from others who lived nearby.

    "And then there's Mike who plays the violin," someone else added. (I'm changing people's real names, but the nicknames are the same.)

    "Then there's a guy in my neighborhood, Stevie, who's always dancing," said another.

    "But he's not a crackhead," corrected the first young man. "People think he's a crackhead, cuz he's always dancing, but he's just dancing, just to dance."

    This seemed to me like the makings of something marvelous, a kind of Brementown Musicians fairy tale in Miami's Liberty City.

    "What if these guys had an adventure?" I asked.

    "Naw, they just crackheads," the group protested.

    "But what if they weren't crackheads?" I kept on. "What if Frog was really a big, magical frog. And Mike's violin had magical powers? And the dancer, well, what could the dancer do?"

    To humor me, the teens started to act out a play. They still found it difficult to disassociate actor from character, making the puppet masters holding Frog and Mike feel uncomfortable about being cast as crackheads.

    I tried to draw in one of the girls by inviting her to invite a little girl character, who wanders into this magical world.  Almost immediately she was assaulted, raped, sent to foster care, impregnated, and infected with HIV. A young man from a neighborhood far from Miss Betty's store, who had not participated in the earlier discussion about the violinist, the dancer, and the frog, jumped in, taking over the story to tell the tragic tale of two young, HIV-positive lovers and their many trips to the hospital trying to care for their infant.

    Try as I might, I could not conjure any magic for this tale.

    Celeste Fraser Delgado is the MOLI View's contributing editor for Worthy Causes. Her Do-Gooder blog appears Tuesdays and Thursdays.
  • Thick as Thieves

    I don't really care about the guy who snipped my bike lock. It was a cheap lock. The bike was on a deserted street in a business district on a Sunday afternoon. He looked to be in his 40s, wore a neatly pressed shirt, and showed no sign of distress when I ran out of the office and tried to stop him. He's been at this game a long time. From now on, I'll use a better lock and keep the bike inside.

    But I am worried about the kids in my neighborhood. If they're stealing bikes at 10 or 11 years old, it's a safe bet they'll be after bigger and more dangerous game soon enough. Maybe it was even the preteens, or their brothers or cousins, who broke into my house last weekend. And if it wasn't them, it was probably some other young men from around the way. Maybe friends of my 16-year-old son's friends or friends of their friends. It seems pretty clear that it was somebody who knew us well enough to know our stash and to know the house was empty.

    If they're lucky, these kids might end up at the youth crisis shelter where I volunteer on Monday nights. I've seen plenty of stick-up kids and gang-bangers there and they always seem just like my son: rambunctious, creative, eager for praise. I'm always worried about where they're headed next, if they don't turn around.

    Now it's clear there are kids heading for prison or an early death in my own neighborhood. There should be something I could do beyond installing alarms and making my house a fortress. Yes, I'll be contacting Neighborhood Watch to see if there's any way my neighbors and I can better take care of each other. But there must be a community approach to fighting crime that goes beyond the surveillance-and-snitch model -- a way for communities to watch out for the young people among us who are tempted to commit crimes.

    My big hope for the moment is in a national nonprofit called Fight Crime: Invest in Kids that provides research on how to keep young people out of trouble. I'll keep you posted on how my personal anti-crime crusade goes.

    Believe me, I'm not thrilled about shelling out a bunch of cash for new electronics and bikes. And for a professional writer, not having my tools for a few days really sucks. But I'm much more distressed to know that there's a group of young men regularly passing me by who are willing to throw their lives away, a few hundred bucks at a time.

    Celeste Fraser Delgado is the MOLI View's contributing editor for Worthy Causes. Her Do-Gooder blog appears Tuesdays and Thursdays.
  • Man Saves Drowning Bear
    Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission biologist Adam Warwick just couldn't let the bear drown, so he took off his shirt and dove in after it. The 375 lb black bear had been spotted in a residential area, obviously looking for food, and was shot with a tranquilizer dart. Unfortunately, before it went under, it jumped in the water of the Gulf of Mexico.

  • Send a Kid to Camp
    I don't know about you, but right about now I'm pining for summer vacation, for summer camp, for three-legged races and wrapping yarn around twigs to make God's eyes.

    Out in the woods...Out in the woods...
    I met a bear...I met a bear...

    Sorry, just a little reminiscing about the campfire.

    I can't go to camp this year because I have to blog. And teach. And write a book. I bet you have some kind of onerous job getting in the way of your summer fun too.

    So why not live vicariously. Why not donate a little bit of your hard-earned cash to send a kid who is sitting around with nothing to do (remember what that was like?) to summer camp.

    There's still time to give a kid a memory to treasure forever.

    Here's a few places you can make your donation in one quick click:


    Celeste Fraser Delgado is the MOLI View's contributing editor for Worthy Causes. Her Do-Gooder blog, which highlights great ways to be a positive influence in your community or draws attention to exceptional individuals, appears Tuesdays and Thursdays. 

  • Beggar Children
    mzungus meandering around downtown, fingers pointing, and heads on swivels.  With stomachs full of matooke and rice, we took our time digesting as we strolled along the broken sidewalk.  Shopkeepers called out, hoping that their wares could draw our attention.  Boda-boda drivers offered us rides on their bicycles or mopeds.  A third group called us too.  Three small children, around five or seven years old, quietly implored, "Sirs, 100?"  They were asking for a meager 100 shillings, and we had just spent 8,000 on lunch.  Surely we could spare the equivalent of 6 American cents.

    Before we could respond, our program director shooed them away in their native language.  Many of the interns were heartbroken.  I know I was.  Here is a little kid, malnourished and poorly clothed, and all he wanted was a nickel.  That's not too much to ask.  I could have tossed him the coin and moved on.




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