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Not a Doormat
Kick that user to the curb!
Dear Theo,
OK, well, first of all, I love you — ‘nuff said.
But, seriously, I am a lesbian and have been dating a bisexual girl for two years and then on and off for about seven months now. I love her; I truly do, and I don't think there are very many moments I don't think of her. I guess it is a weakness, but the reasons for breaking up are as follows:
Every time I try to pull away she somehow convinces me that she misses me and tells me what I want to hear. Really, I need help actually getting through to her, or to just stay away.
I know my list of cons should be good enough, but it's that "fucking happens to everyone back and forth shit" I just can't get out of. I need some advice fast. I don't know how many times I can break and glue my heart back together.
OK, well, first of all, I love you — ‘nuff said.
But, seriously, I am a lesbian and have been dating a bisexual girl for two years and then on and off for about seven months now. I love her; I truly do, and I don't think there are very many moments I don't think of her. I guess it is a weakness, but the reasons for breaking up are as follows:
- She is selfish in all aspects, including time and money.
- I have been at my job for a year and she doesn't even know the name of my company.
- It has been over a year since she has taken me on a date.
- She never buys me anything, not even for my birthday or Christmas.
- She owes me money and will spend 200 bucks on her cat before she pays me.
- It just so happens when she finally does make time for me it's when she has nothing else to do except errands and she has no car.
- She is a liar and a cheater.
- She criticizes instead of complimenting me.
Every time I try to pull away she somehow convinces me that she misses me and tells me what I want to hear. Really, I need help actually getting through to her, or to just stay away.
I know my list of cons should be good enough, but it's that "fucking happens to everyone back and forth shit" I just can't get out of. I need some advice fast. I don't know how many times I can break and glue my heart back together.
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11:47 EDT, 04.Apr.08